Gardening Methods

my 23 months daughter has of let been very cranky and demanding. she wants to do everything on her own and?

due to that her personal hygene is jeopardised. she doesen’t let anyone give her bath or feed. she has new baby brother who is 25 days old. she has normal jealousy towards him but her this behaviour os worsening in last 6 months. i can not take her to any restaurants or someone’s house due to this, she will invariably spoil the house or make mess in dining table. she hits other kids in garden for no obvious reason. she never shares her toys with other kids. i am shocked as till she was 15 months she never even cried and now for every other thing she is on floor showing tantrums. she gets whatever she wants by those tantrums and excessive crying. she even hits herself during those tantrums so we have to give in most of the times, though few times we are able to divert her. she enjoys only out doors. her vocabulary is still limited, she understands but is not able to talk everythin. l need help in how to deal with her..

First of all, you can’t give her everything she wants because of a temper tantrum, as that reinforces the behavior. My son used to hit himself a lot during a tantrum, but we got to the point of holding him down or putting him in a carseat or crib until he stopped. The age is part of it, and the new baby sounds like another. She is trying to figure it all out. Call your school district office, as they may have a county or city early intervention office that can help you with these issues. I would suggest not taking her to restaurants for awhile, and to the park more. The temper tantrums are normal, but it is best to let them safely “cry it out” especailly with an uncompromising rule (re: safety or health.) It is REALLY hard, but in a while she will realize the tantrums aren’t working.

Kids room post christmas